Tool Box

Books

Chapman, Gary "The Five Love Languages"

Arterburn, Stephen & Stoeker, Fred "Everyman's Battle"

Family

  • "Fathers don't provoke you children to anger." Ephesians 6:4 You may win the battle but lose your Kids.
    Rules without relationship leads to rebellion.
  • Don't have you children be Experience Rich and Relationship Poor!
  • A man admits mistakes and makes decisions to correct them!
  • Families that pray together...stay together.
  • Your quiet time with God speaks volumes to you children.
  • Don't pull your kids or your spouse down! Build them up!
  • Praising your kids and spouse is a GREAT motivator.
  • Don't discipline out of anger.
  • Pray with you kids before the start of your day and at the end of the day.
  • SAY YOUR SORRY AND MEAN IT!!!
  • SAY THANK YOU!!
  • Give up keeping score.
  • Find out what the right thing is and then DO IT!
  • Have family dinners.
  • No substitute for time with your kids!
  • Tone and Body Language says it ALL!

    • Finance

    This is a Power Point presentation that Glen put together to help people with thier finances. Check it out, it could really help you manage your money.

  • This link is for a weekly expense template. Use this to help you budget you money. Just click the "download" link. download!

  • The Rich rule over the Poor, and the Barrower is Servant to the Lender.

    • Friends

  • "The greatest love a person can have for his friends is to give his life for them."- John 15:13

    • Marriage

  • How do we protect our marriages?
    1. Pray
    2. refuse to "dabble" in sin
    3. use scripture
    4. tell others about our faith
    5. Love your spouse the way God loves you, UNCONDITIONALLY!
  • NEVER USE THE "D" WORD!!! (divorce)
  • You can win every fight, but still lose your marriage.
  • Marriage cannot survive without forgiveness.
  • Keep yourself in check...don't break the trust.
  • Always speak positive of your spouse in public.
  • Marriage is a covenant not a contract.
  • Forgiveness is the foundation for change in a marriage.
  • BE A TEAM!
  • CHEATING EYES MAKES A CHEATING HEART!
  • Hate your impurity...GET ANGRY!
  • Maintain eye contact when your spouse is talking.
  • Don't go to bed angry.
  • YOUR SPOUSE IS NOT A MIND READER!!!
  • Dream together.
  • If you always hold hands you will always be married.
  • Trust that you married a good-willed person.
  • Don't kill the spirit of your spouse!

    • Life

    This is another Power Point presentation that Glen put together to help you find the right vocation for you.

  • Don't be afraid for tomorrow...God is already there!
  • Share your passwords with your spouse.
  • Encourage one another daily.
  • It's not one person's job.
  • Be prepared - PLAN!
  • Begin with the end in mind.
  • Keep it simple.
  • Do the right thing LISTEN TO GOD!
  • Recognize, Refrain, Re-energize against Satan.
  • Listen twice as much as you speak.
  • Seek to understand.
  • Making Decisions:
    • Circumstances
      • Gallations 6:7-11
    • Consience
      • Acts 24:16
    • Seek Counsel
      • Proverbs 15:22
    • Clear Instruction from the Word
      • James 1:22
    • Common Sense/Wise Behavior
      • Ephesians 5:15-16
    • Contentment or Peace
      • Colossians 3:15

    Love

  • LOVE YOUR KIDS UNCONDITIONALLY!!!
  • Men: Love your wife. Women: Respect your husband.
  • Love doesn't keep score of WRONGS.
  • ROMANCE
    • Remember to date
    • Open your heart
    • Marriage is a bond for life
    • Accept your spouse unconditionally
    • Never take them for granted
    • Cherish the little things
    • Everyday tell them you love them

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